Shooting My Shot in 2026: Confidence Without Compromise

For a long time, I confused self-protection with playing small. I told myself I was being disciplined, wise, or healed. But if I’m honest? I was often avoiding disappointment.

2026 feels different—not because I’ve magically stopped caring about outcomes, but because I’ve stopped tying my worth to them.

This year, I’m shooting my shot.

Not recklessly. Not desperately. Not to prove anything to anyone.

But in a grounded, self-trusting, emotionally regulated way.

Shooting My Shot Doesn’t Mean Compromising Myself

Let’s be clear. Shooting my shot does not mean:

• Saying yes to things that drain me
• Over-explaining my needs
• Lowering my standards to avoid being alone
• Confusing potential with consistency

It means I’m no longer shrinking myself to stay comfortable. I apply for the opportunities I want, speak up for what I need, and introduce myself even when it feels scary. Confidence isn’t loud—it’s willing.

This Applies to More Than Romance

Yes, romantic relationships are included—but they’re not the main headline.

I’m shooting my shot in:

• Business: Collaborations, speaking opportunities, creative projects that stretch me
• Friendships: Initiating connection instead of waiting to be chosen
• Calling & Purpose: Trusting the pull I feel isn’t random
• Rest & Joy: Choosing fulfillment without feeling like I have to earn it
• Visibility: Letting myself be seen without preemptively explaining or defending myself

From a Therapist’s Chair: Fear Isn’t a Red Flag

One of the biggest lies we internalize is that fear means don’t.

In reality, fear often shows up when something matters. When something stretches us. When something asks us to be present instead of protected.

The goal isn’t to eliminate fear. The goal is to stop letting it make decisions for us. You can be regulated and brave. Boundaried and open. Soft and decisive.

My Only Non-Negotiable This Year

I will not abandon myself for access—whether to love, opportunities, or approval.

If shooting my shot costs my peace, it’s not my shot.

But if it asks me to trust myself, to show up honestly, to risk being seen? Then yes. Every time.

Ready to Shoot Your Shot?

If you’re ready to step into 2026 with clarity, boundaries, and courage, I can help you navigate the next chapter.

Book a Session with Me and let’s make this your year to show up fully—for yourself, your goals, and the life you deserve.